Monday, 17 March 2014

Safe places, invisible balloons and parents get in on the act!: Mindfulness Matters Week 7

In Year 6 the students created safe places in their mind that they could go to in times of stress or anxiety. The trick was to try and create this place without other more negative images crashing it in to make it less safe!

The nature of what is kind and unkind is important as there is a great deal of evidence suggesting that kindness and gratitude are linked to positive wellbeing and resilience.
So we asked: what did it mean to be kind? and how were people unkind? and how are you unkind to yourself?

That final question seemed the easiest for students to answer. They were very aware of when they were hard on themselves and what words they said to themselves about it:

'Im so stupid!' " why did you do that, thats dumb!' etc.

Their task for this week is to keep a card with kind and unkind written on it in their pockets. Every time they do/say something kind or unkind they have to take the card out of their pocket and put it back in the other one. Should be interesting! Lets see what happens next week?

Year 2 did some mindful movement; lifting an invisible gigantic balloon  and sending it in the air, then raising their arms like a 'proud peacock'. Both myself and Mr Parry their teacher felt proud of them because they did it so well! They also did well sitting and doing nothing, just focusing on their breathing. For some a really boring task, for others wonderful to have permission for a small slot of time where nothing was expected of them. Again the kids were fantastic at it!

For the Year 2's safe place we asked them to imagine a friendly and brave animal that would guard them when they were scared. Jaguars, dinosaurs, dogs and birds all made an appearance, and maybe the children now have something to help them if they are afraid of the dark?

Thanks to all the parents who came to the parent session. They tried the activities, and found out about the course. It was great to hear how one child's attentional skills at home seem to have really improved, and how other children seem to really value the sessions. 

Their only challenge: When will this be done in the whole school? because all the children need it. 

I couldn't agree more, why shouldn't they all have it? It has to be my mission to make it happen. But I do know I will have lots of allies campaigning with me!

Final instalment next week!

No comments:

Post a Comment